Wonderful Thinking

When does staying well-informed cross the line into information overload and overwhelm? As leaders working in the diversity, equity and inclusion space, the current social and political climate definitely has us testing that balance. 

KH: Like many friends, our texts and DMs are random and never ending. 😁

BG: I am certain that we have more proverbial costume changes in one conversation than Beyonce will have during the Cowboy Carter tour! But much like a tour all the changes are still connected by a theme.  

KH: We’ve got jokes, personal updates, and of course memes. But we also keep each other informed on what’s happening in social justice and diversity, equity and inclusion. And there’s a lot happening these days. 

BG: I vacillate between hope and exhaustion frequently. I’m also aware that the point of all the chaos is to cause overwhelm. Septima Poinsette Clark once said, “I have great belief in the fact that whenever there is chaos, it creates wonderful thinking. I consider chaos a gift.” I believe that’s what we’re doing in our DMs — a lot of wonderful thinking. 

KH: “Wonderful thinking.” I love that!! It speaks to the space we’re creating for each other. And to think, we don’t send half of what we could! With the barrage of legislative actions related to diversity, equity and inclusion, it can be easy to spiral in the name of staying well informed. Even when you have positive developments, like the Federal judge blocking exec orders last week. How do you know when you crossed the line into information overwhelm?  If I get to 2-3 scrolls and haven’t laughed — that’s my sign! 

Educator and activist Septima Clark

BG: Yes! My barometer is joy. If I don’t have a smile on my face and my heart full after a few scrolls, I go find the beautiful toddler in brown fringe cowgirl boots popping a fan to Frank Foster’s song, “Boots on the Ground.” Also, she’s a much better dancer than me and I clearly need to level up before Spring. I can’t look bad doing this dance, lol!

KH: How do you find a better balance? 

BG: With so much change, it makes sense that we’re trying to gain a sense of control by staying informed. But I think we have to set boundaries and ask ourselves ‘Is this information actionable?’ Social media algorithms can trap us and decide what we see. We have to be picky and find a few trusted news sources, limit the amount we consume and stick with the important parts. National Public Radio (NPR) is my go-to source. I listen on the way to work and on the way home. I’ll catch some local news in the evening to catch community and legislative happenings. And everything else I consume is on the lighter side.

KH: Agreed on being selective in terms of news consumption. I will also mute a group chat in a minute. Hide and delete folks on social. And sometimes simply tell people that I don’t want to be included in certain conversations. I have to check myself, too. Like you, I’m biased toward positive action, so I try to share content that reflects that. If I’m reading or watching and feel more despair than motivation — it’s time to do something different. 

BG: It’s really about finding ways to respond effectively to changes that affect our lives and those around us without being part of the noise. I read this quote by author Caroline J. Sumlin recently, “Joy and rest must be at the foundation of your activism. It is not sustainable to run on anger.”

KH: And let’s be clear; we’re not delusional or engaging in toxic positivity. What we’re facing as a nation, particularly as part of marginalized communities, is an attempt to undo decades of progress toward a more just society. I recently sent you an article about banning books — in this case a library removing from its shelves books that mention the civil rights movement. Can you imagine what’s left on those shelves? It’s scary and maddening. 

At the same time, I’m seeing more people post reminders that we are not powerless. There are things we can do to fight back, drive positive change, and take care of ourselves. 1) More intentional spending with companies whose practices align with your values. For me that’s Black, small and local businesses.  2) Buy, borrow, read and recommend banned and challenged books. 3) Support mutual aid efforts — and make use of them if you need help. Being part of a supportive community is so important right now. What would you include on that list?

The banned book display at Watchung Booksellers, an independent bookstore in Montclair, NJ

BG: I absolutely agree with intentional spending — or not spending. I’d add lifting locally — attend city council meetings, school board meetings, community events. This is where decisions are made and you can lend your voice to positive change. I’d add volunteering for the causes that align with your values or interests. Whether it’s schools, parks, civic organizations or community centers and nonprofits. There are plenty of ways to give back and be creative doing it. I saw a video of a music teacher that was volunteering to teach kids spirituals from the Black church. What a way to connect with the community and combat the suppression of information in a nontraditional way! I believe what Kerry Washington said during the NAACP Awards. We’re being called to greatness.

KH: If DEI is the top topic in our DMs, second has to be Black history. You and I always talk about how we celebrate all year; Black History Month is just our anniversary. What’s been your favorite Black history share so far? Mine is the post about Whitney recording “I’m Your Baby Tonight” in one take because she wanted to go to the mall! I read LA Reid told that story in his book Sing to Me. I also love the history Imani Barbarin shared about Audre Lorde’s quote and why rest and self-care are revolutionary. 

BG: There have been two for me: encouraging people to watch The Six Triple Eight. Black girls are magic! I was beaming that entire movie! It’s our tradition of resistance that continues to inspire me. Did I mention these women built a hair salon in a dilapidated church during a war? The second would be Sheila E. sharing the story of playing bottles filled with water on Michael Jackson’s song, “Don’t Stop ‘Til You Get Enough.” As soon as I saw this clip, I listened to the song. If you didn’t know, now you know! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yaMhspMpzfo

The six triple eight battalion

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Bria R. Griffith is a multi-industry organizational leader on a mission to connect community and business to implement strategies that promote social and economic equity.

Katura Hudson is a writer and strategist with a passion for community, Black history, and New Edition.